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Complex Friends, Simple Friendship
Thursday, July 31, 2008

Sorry for abandoning this blog for so long. Ever since i've changed my blog address, i tend to post there more often. Probably i felt it's more private and personal. And of course, like what yuejia said, even if there's anything to update, it's also outings that we went for together, which you all knew about.

Changing blog address do change my blogging habits. Sometimes i can't believe that i can be so scheming to actually make use of this to sieve out my friends. To use this as a measure, putting my friends to a test.

After the so many things that happened in the past year, i realised friendship is not that simple afterall, especially so when you work together. Being constantly together all the time just make you see more and more flaws of one another. It gets worse when your friends get involved in different kinds of politics, and you start to see your friends starting to compare themselves. Or sometimes i can't even comprehend (or even approve of) my friends' actions.

But of course, i'm very comforted and contented by the fact that because we still love each other, we will never abandon each other. We will still accept them as friends. We still had so much fun and JOY together.

So please don't think so much into these things and do change yourself if you need to. Change for yourself and not for others.


Therefore, whenever i tried to dig out the mistakes i've committed and think of why am i treated in such a manner. Despite the initial tears, i will just stop myself immediately and tell myself that i was never treated as a true friend that's all. Like those childish primary school kids. No harm losing this kind of worthless friend right?

Looking forward to see you guys tmr at sentosa. And do hope all will be well. There are still 3 more years to go in our uni life =)

Actually, yes, friends can be complicated, but our friendship is in fact rather simple. It's all about love and acceptance.


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